It’s amazing how far you can bring a relationship by being honest actually talking about how you feel.

People are people.

You’re not going to find somebody any more perfect than you, so I wouldn’t advise expecting the person you’re with to magically be everything you want.

Especially if you’re too afraid to ever open your mouth and tell them what it is that you actually do want.

I think the most important connection to have in a relationship is a moral one, not a superficial/general one. It doesn’t matter if you two like the same music or not, but it does matter if you aren’t ethically on the same page. That is what gets in the way if you’re not.